Assalamualaikum w.b.t...
It took so long for me to post a new entry ever since Raya Haji.. come back from Raya Haji, too many things in my mind that need to be cleared.. Last week adalah minggu 'tercungap-cungap' for me.. i'm on leave on Monday and Tuesday, but still tak attached kat rumah pun.. banyak benda buat even masuk office kejap (risau dgn msg dari boss.. have to, what to do..) Plus i've to coordinate the monthly meeting, submit monthly report lg.. Mmg stress gak la, but then when i managed to submit and handle everything smoothly(almost), i felt relief.. ok la, done my part..
Last week sempat sneak time 'ngedate' with one of my fav girlfriend during lunch hour.. so update2 la msg2 punya current activities (nak gayut lama2 mcm dulu cannot la, nnt en.hubby tarik muka =p) Happy sgt dgr cerita preparation for her engagement on january 10 coming soon.. Terdetik dlm hati "Finally, she'll belongs to a good guy.." kalau diingat2kan balik, mmg jauh betul experience die dgn mcm2 jenis lelaki.. don't get her wrong, she's not that kind of lady.. it's just experience die yg jmpa mcm2 jenis lelaki..
Cinta Terhalang
Dihalang oleh parents die yang mahukan die concerntrate dgn study die.. This guy dengarnya ok, treat her as a princess and appreciate die sgt2.. but what to do.. bukan jodoh.. sigh =(
Kawan Makan Kawan
Mula-mula both of them rapat, betul2 hoping that their relationship will lasting.. Dalam diam, tak tahu since bile, this guy mula rapat dgn roommate my friend ni.. Bile dpt tahu, mmh syahdu haru biru la my friend ni.. Bila ditanya balik roommate ni ckp "korang xkan faham, ini soal hati dan perasaan" what the FUnny.. (dah xde laki lain ke?)
Paranoid guy!
One guy yang die jmpa ni agak psycho, paranoid and xtau la apa2 terms lagi.. mmg nmpk this guy sgt2 menyukai my friend ni, sgt2 attentive sampai my friend ni xboleh buat benda lain.. Hello! who do you think you are?! Sedangkan family members sendiri kite xboleh nak control inikan pulak you yang rasa die tu yours.. To that extend, this guy terlalu paranoid sampai cederakan diri sendiri.. the way he did, as if as its not impossible that he can do that to my friend yang agak halus ni.. buzz off!
Tak mungkin kesampaian..
This guy die kenal time practical training.. yes, this guy yang pernah kujumpa sgt baik, soft spoken, good looking and well-educated.. cuma this guy masih dalam relationship yang complicated, atau lebih accurate 'gantung tak bertali'.. so, my friend and this guy mula rapat lepas penat dgn kisah masing2.. bukan kekasih bukan teman biasa (ayat..hehe).. but, how perfect and happy being together, deep inside her heart.. dia rasa bersalah, how about that lady.. die sndr pernah rasa almost the same thing.. so, she decided to back off with hope that guy and her partner akan menemui kebahagiaan semula.. =) u're such a noble princess my dear..
Sweet Arrangement
She met this guy time jadi bride'smate kwn die dulu.. this guy bestman pd groom.. mmg groom ni punya kerja la nak 'adjust' kan dua-dua pengapit ni.. So far so good mula-mula.. semakin hari semakin rapat untill the ex-girl(his unavoidable classmate as well) of this guy dapat tahu.. Buat macam2 to get this guy back and oklah this guy pun came back to that girl.. reason being; kesian and unavoidable sbb classmate.. sigh.. my friend ni pun frust but she accepted his apology.. Unfortunately, baru-baru ni dapat tahu (bila mana my friend ni already accepted the proposal of the last guy) that girl cheated that guy again and now with her other classmate pulak! Isk2.. That guy mengadu to my friend.. but she can't do anything.. i'm sorry to that guy, yes mmg this guy baik, terlalu baik sampai terima balik that girl after so many thing she had done.. too late.. think positive,ada hikmah semua ini..
Secret admire
Time study dulu, my friend pernah admired to her classmate.. after break off with 'Kawan Makan Kawan', sampailah sama-sama pursue degree.. Siap hint2 lagi.. Its ok my dear, mmg xsalah pun and at least u've done ur part.. But dengar2 dari trusted sources, this guy pun mmg dah lama admired to my friend ni, tapi ada 3 halangan;
1. Still studying that time.. (mcmla study mati2an sgt..huhu)
2. My friend ni terlalu rapat dengan classmate yang sorang lagi (hello, this guy confessed openly that he already had a special girlfriend, dah engaged pun skrg..)
3. Best friend a.k.a roommate this guy sendiri ni minat and fallin for my friend ni.. (ok, i think this is the main reason why he refused to do so.. ni betul2 kawan tak makan kawan.. best men win la bro.. huhu =p)
But now, this guy obviously looking after my friend ni.. bile member sorang tu dah engaged and to be married soon, member sorang lagi pun dah ada awek lain(kalau xsilap).. baru nak bg birthday present, non stop teasing my friend in FB, sms.. and disampaikan oleh trusted sources lagi(betul ke tak perkataan ni), mmg this guy serious to tackle my friend ni.. because, mmg dah lama pun admired to my friend kononnya skrg baru masa yang sesuai..
Unfortunately...
Kasih Tercipta..
No wonder her aunt beriya2 mahu introduce this guy to my friend ni.. My heart strongly agreed that "This is the best guy for her" Boleh nampak his sincerity towards my friend ni.. Simple and humble, but complete.. Dah lama kerja, ada aim nak success lagi, keluarga ok, attitude mmg sgt ok, sense of humour, rupa paras sederhana tapi kata org tua sejuk mata memandang.. (eh, puji lelebih ni kang en.hubby tarik muka..sori2, luv u my chubby hubby)
At first, hardly to convince my friend yang agak keliru and berbelah bahagi.. yelah, xsemua family arrangement ni worked.. (like me! lgsg xmenjadi..) but then after few months.. she decided to accept that guy and without further delay, that guy pun terus mempropose my friend ni and she's ok with that.. Alhamdulillah.. They'll be engaged soon on January..
Moral of the Story;
1. Good girl - my friend ni mmg sgt2 baik orangnya.. xpernah hurt anyone's feeling, instead off, die yang jaga feeling orang lain.. sometimes, too much sampai some people take for granted on her..
2. Perempuan baik untuk lelaki yang baik - and the other way round..
3. Silapnya.. - frequently happened to a guy(mostly), selalu tak hargai teman/peluang didepan mata.. bila mana peluang/si dia terang2 sgt hampir lagi dekat dgn mereka, mereka masih sedar(maybe buat2 xsedar) dan tercari-cari.. whenever the girl already went away or belongs to someonle else.. barulah.. "telah kusedari nilai cintamu, pabila kau tiada lagi disisi ku..." couldn't recall the title of the song..
